Everyone Likes to Say "Network" But Nobody Tells You How
One of the most annoying things about career advice is how vague it is. People always say “just network” like that clears everything up. Like networking is a button you press and suddenly you have internship offers. What they don’t say is what networking is supposed to look like when you are a normal college student with zero connections, a busy schedule, and no clue what to say without sounding weird. Most advice stops at the word itself. Network. Connect. Reach out. Okay, but to who? About what? How long? What am I even asking for? And if someone doesn’t respond, am I supposed to follow up or just disappear? Nobody explains that part, and that is the part that makes students avoid it. The truth is most students aren’t scared of “networking.” They’re scared of sounding dumb, annoying, or desperate. They don’t want to message someone and look like they are begging for a job. So instead they do nothing and tell themselves they will do it later. Then later turns into graduation. Netw...